[GJM] Mom's Mad. And She's Organized.
marguerite hampton
ecopilgrim at aabol.com
Fri Feb 23 12:11:49 MST 2007
Co-learner's -
In a world where jobs are dramatically disappearing
and where population reduction is a necessity, how
does this fit?
I'd also like to point out some things not generally
known with regard to human consciousness, but
brought out by Dr. Carla Hannaford in "Smart Moves"
and John Chilton Pearce in "The Biology of
Transcendence". Recall that Hannaford points out
in "Smart Moves" that the black children of Lesotho
in South Africa score far higher on tests than do the
white children in urban areas.
The reason for this is that the Lesotho children,
according to Hannaford,are brought up in a "clan tality,
structure" which provides a "rich sensory environment
full of sound, touch, smell and visual stimuli with lots of
room for movement and the abiliity to freely explore one's
own body in space. Along with plenty of time and practice
for pattern recognition -- of sensory motor patterns, language
patterns, rhythm and music patterns, and human relationship
patterns"-- all in a natural environment to which one is still
"connected".
Note: This relates to Jay Earley's theory in "Transforming
Human Culture" that we need to reconnect to the "basic
qualities" inherent at the beginning of our social evolution,
e.g., natural living, community, equality, vitality, and
belonging. These are "feminine qualities" which have been
suppressed by the emergence of the more masculine qualities,
e.g., technology, rational thinking and social order (including the
very powerful monetary system in force today which drives
the rest of our systems.)
Of note also is emphasis on breast-feeding until the
age of three and carrying the child on the mother's
back while working in the fields until that age
so that the "heart-to-heart" rhythm necessary for
bonding/patterning takes place in a way that creates
socialization naturally and builds in resistance to
"enforced enculturation" as heart - brain
entrainment takes place providing for our "inner
awareness" or "intuitiveness" -- that is, "formation
of the holographic mind".
This latter information is largely provided by John
Chilton Pearce in the "Biology of Transcendence"
and I do urge reading both Hannaford and Pearce
together so as to gain more of "the whole big picture".
It seems to me that this information regarding the
"new biology" and, in particular, with regard to
neurocardiology, provides lots of clues as to how
to restructure our social systems so as to provide
optimum environments which encourage
conscious pursuit by the peaceful path rather
than by the path of the warrior as we are doing today.
My point here being that if women are organizing,
let's ensure that we have viable information with which
to organize around. And, that we also ensure that the
men in our lives get the message as well.
This is about "integration" and what appears
is that instead of "going off to work somewhere"
work needs to be centered within "electronic
cottages" in small communities as suggested by
Alvin Toffler in "The Third Wave". And that the
medium of exchange needs to be "local currency"
for the main part, but combined with a non-usurious
international currency.
What also appears is that "work" will be largely
centered around the production of food, care of
children, invalids, the elderly, etc., as the labor-
force continues to be down-sized so that we
are engaged in "sustainable living enterprises"
such as "bio-mimicry and nano-technology"
which require little or no human labor. And, that
enterprises will be "home-oriented" rather than
corporatized for the most part.
eco
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Mom's Mad. And She's Organized.
By KARA JESELLA
February 22, 2007, The New York times
A BABY was passed around like the hors d'oeuvres - in this
case, bruschetta, a fruit plate - among the 10 mothers who
crowded into Ann Clark's Sacramento home on a Tuesday night
this month. No matter if the baby was crying; this was a
child-friendly crowd.
The mothers all held jobs outside the home (pastry chef,
singer in a band, lawyer, hairstylist, nanny) and many had
flexible schedules to make it easier to care for their
children. Like hundreds of others who have gathered over the
last nine months, they huddled around a television to view
'The Motherhood Manifesto,' a documentary about the obstacles
still facing working mothers, including many of those in the
room.
'I'm home with a 2-year-old, so there may be an interruption,'
said Ms. Clark, 35, a social worker with two children and a
three-day-a-week office job, as she recounted the viewing
party the next day and talked about how she related to the
mothers in the movie. Like them, she said, her financial
situation felt precarious. She wasn't sure she could count on
keeping her part-time position next fall.
'These are issues I'm aware of and feel strongly about,' she
said of the movie's focus on subjects like universal child
care, maternity and paternity leave, and workplace
discrimination against mothers. That is why she joined
MomsRising.org, the mother's advocacy organization that made
the documentary. 'It's a great opportunity to connect with
friends - mothers - and together have a chance to change
things,' she said.
For years, mothers have been taking to the Internet to blog or
post messages about the travails of motherhood, commiserating,
fuming or laughing about their shared lives. But in the last
year there has been a marked increase in those who are going
beyond simply expressing their feelings. In a throwback to
their mothers' - or was it their grandmothers'? - time, they
are organizing about family and work issues.
A generation of mothers who are largely perceived as
postfeminist in every way, from sex to economic
discrimination, has begun a consciousness-raising that is
almost old-fashioned were it not for the technology involved.
Raised to believe that girls could accomplish anything, these
women have reached parenthood, only to find they faced many of
the same pay, equity and work-family balance issues that were
being fought over decades before. From that awakening, they
say, has come the inkling of a new movement.
In many ways, these groups are repackaging issues that have
been around for nearly 50 years and have proven intractable
despite the efforts of legions of activists, lawyers and
elected officials.
But what MomsRising has done, the organizers say, is frame its
concerns as family and economic issues, which resonate for a
younger generation of women. (They say they will include the
fathers later.)
It is not a coincidence that MomsRising is using the tactics
of MoveOn.org, the influential liberal organizing site that
helped propel Howard Dean's presidential candidacy. One of the
group's founders is Joan Blades, who, with her husband, Wes
Boyd, founded MoveOn.
MomsRising is the newest and most prominent in a loose
coalition of advocacy groups, including Mothers & More, the
Mothers Movement Online, Mothers Ought to Have Equal Rights
and the National Association of Mothers' Centers, that are
sharing information, joining together at rallies and signing
one another's petitions.
They, in turn, are starting to form alliances with labor
groups and traditional feminist groups like the National
Organization for Women. And they are communicating with what
some might see as unlikely allies: traditional family values
groups like the Christian Coalition.
The various mother's rights groups are concentrating much of
their effort at state legislatures. In Washington State, they
met with the speaker of the house about passing a bill that
would allow employees to be paid if they take family- or
medical-leave time, and in California, they have proposed
legislation that would make it illegal to discriminate based
on family status. Senator Sheila Kuehl has agreed to author
the bill, which is to be introduced this week. They are also
hoping to be heard during next year's presidential race.
It's difficult to know just how big the burgeoning movement
is. MomsRising, which has been around since last May, has
attracted 80,000 members from around the United States. The
goal, organizers say, is to build a nonpartisan grass-roots
movement millions strong.
Seeing Nancy Pelosi swarmed by children moments after being
sworn in as the first female House speaker gives them hope,
they said, that they are gaining momentum in a more welcoming
political atmosphere.
'It was a joyful thing to see the speaker of the House
surrounded by kids,' Ms. Blades said. 'We thought, âWow, we're
in the right place at the right time.' We've been waiting for
this to happen; we're ready for this to happen.'
What have these mothers been waiting for? It is all laid out
in the MomsRising documentary, which was shown in Washington
on Sept. 28 to a crowd that included Senator Ted Kennedy and
presidential candidates Hillary Rodham Clinton (her office
helped organize the screening), Barack Obama and Christopher
J. Dodd.
The film opens with one woman telling her friend that she and
her husband have decided to have a baby. 'Are you clueless?'
the friend asks. 'Don't you know what happens to mothers in
America?' One thing the movie makes clear: It isn't good.
Using data and personal stories of mothers who have been
discriminated against in the workplace, the film emphasizes
that mothers are less likely to be hired, will make less
money, and are more scrutinized for wrongdoing than either
single women or men. The reason it cites: There are not enough
family-friendly policies in place to help parents.
The seeds for MomsRising were planted in 2004, when Ms. Blades
read a book about women and politics by Kristin Rowe-
Finkbeiner, 36, a married mother of two. Ms. Blades, 51, said
she was astonished to find that many younger women didn't
identify with feminism and by the data showing vast
disparities in incomes between mothers and fathers, with
single mothers faring particularly badly.
'I'd been doing the MoveOn thing for over eight years and I
thought: âI'm an organizer and I wasn't aware of this. I don't
know how many people are aware of this,' ' she said.
Ms. Blades decided that America's unfair treatment of mothers
would be the subject for her next book, also called 'The
Motherhood Manifesto,' and she enlisted Ms. Rowe-Finkbeiner as
her co-author. From the book came MomsRising, which is mainly
financed by individual donors and private foundations.
The founders, each of whom has two children, claim that
MomsRising is so new that they do not have a handle yet on who
makes up their membership. But in interviews, some members
said they grew up watching their mothers struggle to balance
career and family.
And while their mothers agitated to be allowed into the
workplace, most of these women don't have the luxury of a
choice. Today, 67 percent of women with children under the age
of 18 are employed, according to the Bureau of Labor
Statistics.
Anita Jackson, 29, of Berkley, Calif., who has an infant
daughter, said MomsRising was 'addressing true family values
as opposed to ideology; real policies that would help moms and
dads get to work, pay the bills and have a family life.'
Particularly important to her, she said, are workplaces with
flexible schedules and universal health care for children.
Like Ms. Jackson, Ashley Boyd, 36, also from Berkeley, was a
member of MoveOn. Ms. Boyd, who does not have children but has
been involved with women's issues, said she first received an
e-mail message about MomsRising on Mother's Day last year. 'I
felt like it was expressing the ideas and energy and
excitement I was looking for,' she said. It was she who
convinced her friend Ms. Clark to hold the documentary viewing
party in Sacramento.
At many house parties, the issue that has generated the most
discussion is something that activists call 'maternal
profiling.' That is using information about a woman's status
as a parent to make managerial decisions, like whether to hire
her and how much to pay her.
They are particularly moved by the story of Kiki Peppard, a
Pennsylvania woman who, 12 years ago, was refused office jobs
after employers found out she was a single mother of two. Ms.
Peppard is a rallying point for many women, who are led by the
film to believe - mistakenly - that such discrimination is
legal. According to two experts in workplace law, it is not.
But many studies indicate that, legal or not, a woman's status
as a mother hurts her at work.
In one study, to be published next month in the American
Journal of Sociology, Cornell researchers sent out résumés and
cover letters to real employers for hypothetical job
applicants. All had the same credentials, but the packages
included subtle cues to indicate that some of the applicants
were parents. (For example, a résumé might note that an
applicant was an officer in a parent-teacher association.)
The goal was to find out if employers are less likely to
pursue an interview if they find out that a candidate is a
parent, said Shelley Correll, an associate professor of
sociology at Cornell, who helped conduct the study. And the
answer was 'yes for mothers, no for fathers.'
For the women who are fired up about workplace inequities,
there is an easy way to fight back, without even leaving the
house.
'You get an e-mail to sign a petition,' Ms. Clark said, about
the ease she had adding her voice to MomsRising, 'and it takes
five minutes and you're done for the day.'
'For women, I know we want to lead more meaningful lives and
make a difference, but it's easy to feel overwhelmed,' she
said. 'But MomsRising makes it feel manageable. Plus, it
creates a community, which is really fun.'
Copyright 2007 The New York Times Company
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